Shame how we can't always communicate who we really are to each other. Shame how this is actually much more usual than not. And shame how things are more forgotten than remembered. But no shame in being human, being unique, being unusual, inexplicable, ineffable, and incomprehensible.
2 comments:
Ted, you're apparent desires to be unique and to be understood are diametrically opposed.
I think people are simple not because they choose to be simple so they can understand and be understood by more people, because human relationships are that important.
I think academics think themselves into paradigms which are so complex that they alienate themselves from those who don't understand them.
Simplicity is beautiful. Complexity and intelligence are precise and powerful. Each has their purpose and their place.
And complements on your pictures are in order. They are quite beautiful. If I had to describe some of them, I would say that they aim to expose the strength and beauty of life. Beautiful pictures. I especially like the purple flowers. One open, one threatening to burst open any minute. Good stuff.
Dear Gabe,
You are the best for taking the time to think and respond.
I tend to agree with you about simplicity, however, have you ever met those people who just don't get you? You'll say a joke or use a certain kind of sarcasm and then they'll completely miss the point? I guess I was responding to those people. Then, on the other hand, there are the people who get you intuitively; the first time you meet them (before they even get to know you), they are completely connecting on a fundamental level.
So for practical things, simplicity always wins, but when it comes to having deep friendships with people, sometimes a little complexity makes it all the more worthwhile. It's nice to know when a friend knows when to draw a line in the sand.
You, Gabe, for example, are someone I can share powerful, complex thoughts with and that just proves the strength and precision of our friendship.
Your always thankful bro,
Ted
Post a Comment